New York. Most men lose the room before they say a word. Not at the closet. At the door.
That is the verdict of Alice Kim, founder of Veritas Image Management, a one-woman men’s image and style practice in New York. She spent ten years designing menswear in the city before turning styling into her full-time work. Her answer to the question every man asks, what should I wear, starts somewhere he doesn’t expect.
“It’s actually the moment just before he walks in,” Kim told Nightlife Report. “Many men take great care getting dressed, only to undo that effort in the last few seconds.”
The ten seconds that decide the night
Her fix is simple and almost physical. “Before he enters, he should find a restroom, straighten his clothes and hair, and make sure he’s satisfied with how he looks. Then he should pause, breathe all the way down into his belly, and settle into his body. Stand tall, back straight, chest open, head level, with a subtle, easy smile, even if it only shows in his eyes.”
Then: “walk in with an open, receptive manner, as if the room is his.”
A runway built for heat, and a stylist who ignores trends
The timing is pointed. This year’s men’s shows were shaped by weather as much as taste. During Pitti Uomo and Milan Men’s Fashion Week, temperatures reached highs of 99°F, and Vogue reported designers and buyers openly debating what menswear looks like on a hotter planet. Tailoring answered with less: Paul Smith showed unlined, softly shouldered suits in silk and silk-cotton, telling FashionNetwork, “We knew it was going to be a hot summer.” WWD logged featherlight, deconstructed jackets from Brioni and linen running through Kiton’s collection.
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The jacket survived the heat. It just lost weight. Kim’s view of the season is blunter still.
“I don’t build my work around seasonal trends or the latest looks,” she said. “A sweeping answer about what every guy should wear this fall tends to produce men who all look alike. My approach starts with the man. Before I suggest anything, I want to know who he is, what his life looks like, what he loves, and what he can’t stand.”
A confident night-out look, she said, “starts with the occasion: the event and the venue. That’s the foundation, and it’s the easy part. The rest comes from getting the fit right, choosing colors that work for him, and letting his personality come through.”
And the detail most men skip: “A simple, well-fitting suit or jacket is a solid choice, but it can feel ordinary on its own; a printed scarf adds a pop of contrast and a dash of personality.”
The test is emotional, not technical. “He shouldn’t be asking himself, ‘Am I going to be okay wearing this there?’ Instead, he should declare, ‘I can’t wait to rock this out tonight.’”
Designed from the inside out
Kim holds a BFA in fashion design with a focus on menswear. “Designing taught me menswear from the inside out: its history, its fabrics, how garments are constructed, what makes a fit work, and how color and detail come together from the cloth to the finished piece,” she said. It also taught her “how to build individual looks within the context of a collection, which I now use to help men maximize their wardrobes, get creative, and make more outfits from a tightly edited closet.”
Why leave the design studio? “Good style gives a man a chance to level up his image and presentation, and with that, his confidence and quality of life follow.”
Clothes and carriage are one thing
“In my experience, clothes and carriage are inseparable,” Kim said. “A man usually hires me because he lacks confidence, and he knows part of that comes from not knowing how to present himself.”
The turn often comes in a fitting room. “He looks in the mirror and, sometimes for the first time in his life, he likes what he sees. I can see the shift right away. He stands taller, his chest opens, and he smiles like he’s just discovered something about himself: I didn’t know I could look like this.”
The mattress on the floor
Her proudest case began with a client “stuck in a dead-end office job, living like a college kid with a mattress on the floor. He had been single for years and wanted a relationship.”
She built “a professional wardrobe around the roles he was aiming for, while keeping everything true to his personality, so he looked like an upgraded version of himself rather than someone else.” Soon after, “he landed a well-paying job with room to grow. He updated his apartment to match the life he was building, and before long he met the woman who became his wife. They now have two children.”
She credits him, not herself: “he made those changes himself, and I was honored to help with some of the changes he wanted.”
The one piece
For a 25-year-old with room for a single investment: “A well-cut navy or charcoal jacket.” It covers “the occasional dress-up day at the office, work drinks, dinner dates, and cocktail lounges – in other words, it’s great ‘adulting’ gear.”
“A perfectly cut jacket will carry a plain shirt and dark jeans further than a cheap blazer can carry a designer shirt,” she said. “Fit is the investment. Pay for the tailoring, and the price per wear drops quickly.”
Milan lightened the jacket. Kim says the cut, not the label, still decides who owns the room.
Upgrade your style, upgrade your life! More from Alice Kim at veritasimage.com.
More from Alice: the truth in the name
Alice Kim named her company Veritas, the Latin word for truth, because she believes “every man can reveal his inner truth by expressing his personal style.” (veritasimage.com/about)
She came to it through the cloth. A BFA in menswear from Otis College of Art and Design in Los Angeles. A first-place award for Best Menswear Design from the National Association of Men’s Sportswear Buyers while still in school. Ten years designing menswear in New York, then styling, for more than twenty years in men’s fashion combined.
Her method is a consulting-coaching combo: fix what he needs now, then teach him to do it for life. Fit comes first. “Know this, and you’re 80% done.” Then color for the face, style for his age and his profession, and a look for off duty. Often the whole change takes less than one working day.
She serves the man at a turning point: a job hunt, a promotion, a new single life, a new body. Her promise fits in five words: upgrade your style, upgrade your life.
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